What does the professional man in his older years look for?
Many mature professional affluent men with plenty of disposable income who are at the self-actualization stage of life seek help from psychologists with the stress and trauma endured over long high-pressure careers, personal trainers and dieticians to fend off the aging process and marks from the pressures of the careers, sports coaches to maximize satisfaction from recreation, and adult entertainers to get the long lost connection, spark, desire, and intimacy into life. All these professionals cost money.
Psychologist, personal trainer, dietician, sports coach, adult entertainer.
All this and more is within the value of coaching for men If you add all that up, the sum is far higher than what Kay-Lauren charges. The kicker is that none of these professionals fix the real problems they are meant to address. Psychologists offer generic advice and present no solutions. Personal trainers motivate, but do not correctly address a man’s lack of motivation. Dieticians also offer generic advice [usually according to governmental guidelines], even when the diet is supposedly tailored to an individual. (An exception are dieticians who work to the direction of doctors treating diseases or conditions. But even so, a good dietitian knows that 90% of diseases and conditions are preventable by exactly good diet!) High end sports coaches address technique, while lack of specific athletic achievement most often comes down to some deep mental block. To make it worse, all these professionals work in silos, so there is no holistic approach to the man’s self-actualisation.
Many men also pay for adult “entertainers” [instead of coaching] because they have problems, blocks, or conflicts in their lives. They seek adult services to distract themselves from the problems and deep voids in them. Many men are painfully aware of their problems, but don’t know how to address them. Coaching would be the last thing on their minds. Many men don’t know what they want in and from life. They want to escape the reality and therefore keep undeserving adult “entertainers” [and their employers!] in business. After the millionth attempt to find pleasure they look at yet another website. They anticipate something wonderful at good value… and get bitter disappointment again. However, they’re lighter in cash, time, NRG and…
…the vicious circle goes on.
Most men communicate poorly, hence their problems, blocks, conflicts. And even the better communicators can certainly hardly talk about their problems to dearly loved family members or friends. Thus men often find themselves isolated with their problems which draws them to seek distractions. While there’s absolutely no social stigma about men having coaching, there might be tremendous stigma – perhaps also fear and embarrassment – about a man confessing to his coach that he visits adult “entertainers”!
Coaching for men – the best of both worlds?
Kay-Lauren helps men break the vicious circle and use their time, money, and energy better. Paying bimbos with fake boobs for a quick fuck does not solve problems, nor raise the quality of life. KL helps men put all the pieces together in a single package held together with wisdom, love, and caring. This package is holistic, far less expensive, and certainly more personal than all those services from different professionals. If a man opens himself to trusting in the process, the results will flow – at a fraction of the price without stigma! KL’s coaching specialisation is in neurolinguistic programming. NLP makes coaching richer, more powerful, and effective. That is because NLP uncovers patterns of physiology, language, thinking, and emotions that a coach without NLP training will not point out.
A man will need courage for this journey, because coaching makes men cry, angry, frustrated, and opens many a can of worms… Additional value will be in how you’ll train yourself and others to support you in making changes. And you will not be able to measure this value by the money you paid for coaching.
What will NLP coaching give men that traditional coaching won’t?
Specific solutions instead of generic theories. Both why things happen and how things happen. Hence an NLP coach will help you find out why you keep stuck in the old ways and create strategies to improve or change things. NLP adds the how. And that’s the greatest value, because people often know why it’d be good to stop doing something, but they don’t know how to start doing better things. And if one doesn’t know how to do something, he won’t do it.
Moreover, KL’s coaching fee is even lower, because she also sends men highlights from coaching sessions to which they can refer forever. The highlights take background work [in unpaid time] of helping men get what they want in the shortest time. Preparation is a mark of every true professional. KL is always meticulously prepared for every session. And preparation takes time and diligence. That immensely enhances the monetary and intrinsic value of coaching.
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